Judgment: A Portal to Personal Growth
Mar 30, 2025
Judgment of others stems from something we're afraid to do or something we've done that we've judged ourselves for. It's a kind of projection of fear. As you grow in confidence, you don't judge others for something you've done in the past, as it's made you who you are.
If someone judges you, it's actually a barometer of success if you're really clear on your purpose. As you face your own fears and self-doubts while fulfilling your dreams, you don't take on others' judgments of you because you're living your dream.
I've found that I used to judge others who were doing something I wanted to do but wouldn't do because of fear! For example, dancing in the street or doing nothing! That's a big one. Why? Because the old me felt I was wasting time. Due to being out of balance, now I love relaxing and doing nothing!
Most who judge us are in their own fear and projecting it onto those doing what they are afraid to do. It actually confirms you are on the right path and doing great! You'll find that as you live your dreams, others' judgments won't affect you because you've overcome your own fears to accomplish it. It's actually a gift!
Judgments and Energy
Judgments create portals. What does that mean? Most people are unaware that when they judge something in another, it's because of an unhealed energy within themselves. When we respond with judgment, we actually create holes in our aura, and our energy goes to the vibration of the person we're judging.
That being said, we still need to be discerning about who we spend our time with and where we put our energy. It's important to have strong boundaries, surrounding ourselves with people who are like-minded and conscious. David Hawkins' work in "Power vs. Force" explains this.
As you grow spiritually, your friendships will change, and you might find a smaller circle around you of those you trust. It's important to remember that other people's thought forms can affect you! You want to surround yourself with high-vibrational people who are at or above your energy level, definitely not below it.
Key Takeaway
Let go of judgment, but be discerning - that's the key. Surround yourself with loving, supportive people, and it will enhance your life!